Is it a form of regression– as a society, as a female, as I don’t know– if I say that I’d be happy folding laundry all my life? That I’d be more than okay with Sisyphean tasks every day because I’ve come to enjoy the process?
Is it regression if I say big pots of soup and pumpkin muffins made from scratch satisfy every part of me? That I love trying recipes– the science–as much as I love the end product, fresh from the oven?
Why can’t I (shamelessly) be a domestic goddess, someone who loves hanging clothing to dry in early morning sun? Someone who wears soft dresses for days spent at home?
Would you be ashamed of me for saying that I’d keep a clean, cozy house with flowers out front and on the table just for him, because I like to?
Are my words sacrilege, blasphemy, to women? A strengthening of the patriarchy? A selfish decree?